Expect to actively entertain your toddler during the flight. Toddlers have short attention spans and need near-constant engagement to stay happy. If you're lucky your child will sleep for part of the trip. I wasn't lucky, "E" very rarely slept. (Well, I was lucky because she was always very good. But she refused to sleep.) As I advised with packing for infants, packing minimally is not really the best thing. Pack everything you might need but keep it as small and light as possible. Try to keep everything easily accessible so you don't have to search for things when your child is getting impatient.
|DVD player, headphones, and blanket = happy toddler...for at least 10 minutes.|
What to pack in the backpack:
What to pack in the lunchbox:
|Two milk boxes; two juice boxes; cookies; Luna or Balance Bars; lollipops; fruit strips; fruit snacks; M&M's; applesauce; Grammy Sammy; Peanut Butter and Jelly sandwiches; Cheese sticks; plate; toddler utensils; bib; antibacterial wipes; diaper wipes|
If you follow these lists you should have practically everything you need. I usually bring even more food and small toys but probably only end up using half of them. It's always better to pack more than you need than to be in need of something. Again, just keep items small so you can manage your bags and your potentially squirmy toddler.